I put plasters over wounds that required deep cleaning and stitches. Why, you ask? It was all I had, all I could do, so I could keep moving beyond the pain. But the wounds are there, healed on the surface, but manifesting as a constant simmer of anger just below. I'm hurt, let me show … Continue reading

Which is it that gets to you? The thing, or that it is being done to you?

Sunday afternoon in Lagos, and I was out with my mum and older brother. We were at an intersection, about turning into the main street, when the driver of the car on the opposite side of the road made an illegal turn just to get to where he was going quicker (as a sharp guy). … Continue reading Which is it that gets to you? The thing, or that it is being done to you?